Posted by: dianaiannarone | June 22, 2016

Don’t be THIS Kind of Choreographer.

puddle, their sobs are not their pain

If someone is kneeling in a puddle, they won’t drown. All that has to happen is they have to stand up. We don’t have to LIFT THEM out of the puddle, manipulators just want us to believe we do, using guilt and shame as the tools.  They do this so that we will run to their rescue confirming what matters most to them, we are under their control. Their calculating mind was only trying to figure out what they had to say or do to get us to jump. They won’t easily give up. Their motivation is simple: they have to win.

That is why we get so tired and they feel so accomplished. They celebrate when we feel we are failing, and they observe with glee as we continue to try harder.

We must Wake up, Stand up, Live free.

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Posted by: dianaiannarone | June 20, 2016

Trust Yourself

In my knowing

 

You might be saying how can I trust myself?  Look at all the wrong turns I took, what I allowed to happen in my life.  Yet, if you really look back,  more often than not, there was this inner knowing, this feeling that something was not right, but you trusted what you HEARD others say, more than what you KNEW at some levels to be true. Trusting that knowing, and not feeling compelled to convince anyone of anything, is part of living freely. We exhaust ourselves, trying to convince others of who we are, or trying to convince ourselves that someone will change. Instead, we need to be able to walk away, being lead by our knowing. That is enough.

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Posted by: dianaiannarone | June 14, 2016

The Sounds of Silence

 

Just because…so beautiful and timely.

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Posted by: dianaiannarone | June 14, 2016

Never Give Up

I can relate so deeply to all her words. Failure can teach you what you are really made of, what you are capable of. It burns away what is “the nonessentials.”  “You are ever after secure in your ability to survive.”

Always know you have within you. Fall down seven, get up eight. Every day is a new day to change and forever impact your life. Never stop believing in a bright future.

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Posted by: dianaiannarone | June 13, 2016

We are Our Rescuer

we are our rescuer

Why can’t we love ourselves as much as we love others, especially others that we often perceive as helpless? We need to see that we are acting helplessly, although we may not be in fact helpless. We have compassion for those who we perceive as unable to defend/care for themselves without our help, but we do not see that we are in fact helpless, if we do not choose to care for and defend ourselves!

The time is now. Be your own gaurdian, your own care-taker, your own strength. You deserve it. Rescue you.

 

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Posted by: dianaiannarone | June 10, 2016

Me & My Shadow~Kindle Promotion

Decided to do a one week promotion on the Kindle version of my book through Amazon.

Price drop from $8.50 to $2.99. Begins today June 10~Learn more by clicking on the link!

 

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Posted by: dianaiannarone | June 7, 2016

Connection is Real

In my view, this is a human message not a political one. Take a minute to know the power of connection. I LOVE THIS…thank you to the beautiful woman who sent this to me. We are here to connect at deep levels…and sometimes silence can get you there. If you want to release fear in favor of connection inbox me at Diana@redthornsolutions.com

Without this level of soul connection, we have missed why we are here.

Try an experiment, if you have no one you would like to try this connection with, do it with yourself. Silence everything in your environment. Set a timer for four minutes. Look into your own eyes. Deeply. Say nothing. Don’t look away.  Just be with you, maybe for the first time. And FEEL what happens…

Wake up. Stand up. Live free.

 

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Posted by: dianaiannarone | May 29, 2016

This is Why We Must Wake Up!

http://www.wafb.com/story/32075704/the-investigators-chilling-body-camera-video-shows-rare-insight-to-domestic-violence

I must say the officers behavior pleased me and sadly surprised me too. Note also, the abuser is the one that called the cops. In today’s world there should be so much more awareness and preparedness than there is, especially in the legal system. This officer could see the truth, unfortunately the woman, now dead, was still asleep. When we are asleep we are unable to acknolweldge the truth of our situation fully…and we are too afraid to Stand up, and as a result, we never get to Live free.

You don’t have to be an emotional hostage, or a physical one.

Wake Up. Stand Up. Live Free.

I am sorry for this woman, and all who loved her and her child.

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Posted by: dianaiannarone | May 26, 2016

Always Be Humble and Kind?

This is beautiful and true. Always be humble and kind, yes. However, in the process we may have to create new definitions. Kind, doesn’t mean you protect wrong doers. Kind, doesn’t mean you tolerate abuse from others. Kind, doesn’t mean you don’t allow someone to have the natural consequences of their poor or cruel behavior. This distortion of kind is what leads so many to endure intolerable pain. We are often taught that protecting ourselves is unkind…no, not protecting ourselves is UNKIND to US. We are in the formula. Our lives matter too. Igniting our warrior spirit, to me means, being kind and willing to protect those in harms way, including ourselves. Being kind does NOT mean you don’t protect yourself. This is where I feel we have to begin to understand our worth matters in the formula too…being kind also means to yourself.

Great song.

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Posted by: dianaiannarone | May 25, 2016

Silent Treatment (Worst Form Of Emotional Abuse)

Well said. The key is to remember that no one holds your life line…and therefore you can let go. Easier said than done, I know. Those that can’t communicate or won’t communicate will not ever be able to create or maintain a loving relationship. Not with you, or anyone…so no need to sweat out whoever came in their life next, it will be more of the same. Don’t delude yourself into believing they have moved on to a happy life or relationship. It can’t be done. By the way, I do believe in second chances…depending on the circumstances; but too many shame on us!

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