About Redthorn Solutions LLC

The Redthorn Solution:

Wake up. Stand up. Live free. 

What or who is holding YOU emotionally hostage?

— Cut Your Root Of Captivity —

I guide people to break free from emotional manipulation by uprooting the malignant thought-form that’s really preventing you from having the life you deserve.

Or as Tony Robbins says in his new movie:
“Let’s deal with the thing that creates your problem in the first place.”

Whether the saboteur is a narcissistic personality holding us hostage, a business crisis crashing down on our head or staying stuck in the doldrums for no apparent reason, our relational traumas are calling for a Seer who can show us how to pierce our state of deception, re-organize our inner life and advocate our self-authority.

Our approach is based on the Power of Perception technique I’d been speaking and writing about since 1995… helping hundreds of financial planners reach personal and professional goals… resolving a million people, service, and compliance issues on my way to becoming a Fortune 100 VP.

After leaving my corporate sanctum in 2005, I started coaching executives and their families.

As business grew, I was confronted with how my habitual patterns had made it impossible to trust my perception of my intimates. My home life imploded.

Shattered, I too, started a new model within myself and became free… dropping the lie of who I was “supposed” to be, based on someone else’s demands.

This experience enriched my understanding of psychology, deepened my connection with something bigger than myself and expanded my ability to coach clients through their battered self-esteem.

My vision for a coaching consultancy focused on life reinvention became Redthorn Solutions in 2013.

Over the past decade, my Perceptual Approach to life reinvention has worked for hundreds of people. It can work for you, too.

Check out my blog, YouTube videos and private coaching offering at http://www.redthornsolutions.com

I live in Wading River, New York. I love nature photography treks, cooking with friends and whale sighting with my adorable grandson.

Please email diana@redthornsolutions.com to set up your free confidential consultation, no matter where you are in the world, we can do this. Confidential Land Line: 631.886.1094


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    • Oops…I don’t have a clue what this means! LOL And I am way behind in responding…thanks for the thought though!

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  4. I love the way you speak about narcissistic personalities. You put it in perspective and I realize more each day what I went through was a nightmare. I’m trying to forgive myself for wasting so many years. I am thankful to you and that so much information is online. It helped me do “no contact” and he finally moved on. I’m 61 and starting over now, a little scared but also happier.

    • I am so glad you are moving on and reaching out to learn more about what you were dealing with. I know how hard it is to let go of the “dream,” the picture that was painted which was designed to be just what you hoped for. Now to move through to your own healing and restore your joy! (You might want to consider my book Me and My Shadow, it is on Amazon, the second half has healing guidance). You deserve to be happy. Make the future of your life about you! Stay free of him. He is not your problem anymore.

  5. Hi diana, I think my husband may have sociopathic traits, when we first met I now realise everything was to fast , told me he loved me after 4 weeks engaged after 8 but I was so in love to, everybody loved him very sociable charming and confident but also easily angered irritable and blames me a lot and never says sorry or thinks anything he did to hurt me was wrong, he says im always start an argument and wanted me to go back on antidepressants as I was as he says better to get on with
    anyway to cut a long story short we married and he wanted to move to france where we still are, he got a lot of work as a stonemason and has seemed to charm everyone, I left my job and my family and have no personal money unless I help him labour on jobs, now there is no sex, no cuddles or kisses no nothing, I told him I want to go back to scotland, and he not even bothered im leaving tomorrow and he still acting happy and whistling humming etc its just weird makes me feel like am crazy
    There is more but would take to long can you give me any advice thankyou

    • Margaret, I am sorry for your experience and it certainly seems to fit the patterns of behavior that are representative of sociopaths. Moving you to France, taking you from your support system, moving quickly, lack of love, intense blame, no accountability. I know that when you are saying you are leaving, it is likely you want him to show emotions…distress…say “oh please no don’t leave.” That will not happen, not until he really believes you will leave. Are you really going to Scotland tomorrow? Don’t answer here. In box me at Diana@redthornsolutions.com and we can do a no obligation free consultation. I Skype to France. You can find me under my name on Skype. You deserve to be free and happy again. Consider too getting my book…it is a guide out. (See the tab on this blog)

  6. I must say that Diana has helped me Immensely, she has guided me into clearing up old wounds so that I am able to move passed a very difficult pattern in my life. She brought to light some truths from childhood that I never even thought of. It completely changed my whole perspective. As a result my life changed. I no longer have those terrible feelings and high anxiety. I am currently the calmest I’ve ever been. Her book (Me and my shadow) is literally the best book I’ve ever read. Diana really shares her story and helps guide you through your own simultaneously. I highly recommend her work and her book!!

    • Thank you for this beautiful message Julie! You have done an amazing job of changing your life!

  7. Hello, I think I neec help… I feel completely attached to by partner of five years who called memntally sick and useless hundreds of times to the point that i cant find any motivation to find a job… if i try to tell him about my problems im feeling he gets upset n tells me to leave his life , that i ruin his life, when i admit that i am a drama queen and that yes i do have mental problems and that i will behave and listen to his every word, then he is normal again as if nothing happened… i kind of feel like i am crazy, but somethings he says are not true, but i must agree and say that he is right or he punishes with silence or anger ect…

    • I sent you an email Marie. Get back to me there when you can.

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