Posted by: dianaiannarone | July 15, 2016

Fragmented, We Tolerate the Intolerable

Divine presence

Excerpt Me & My Shadow:

In our wholeness, we no longer allow others to abuse us. We no longer tolerate the intolerable, for we know now our Divine presence, our fullness of love, and our deservingness of honor. When we can stand comfortably in our full power, we have found our wholeness. When our wounds are healed we will no longer feel the need to judge another, or have a defensive reaction…this is how we know, we have found our way to being whole and complete. Total acceptance of ourselves in all our capacities, in the fullness of who we are, allows us to embrace others with eyes wide open and accept them as they are. We need not fix them, only observe who they are. We believe what we see, as they show themselves to us. We recognize those who are directly inflicting harm, and that ignites our power to protect. We know we have our sword* and are clear on when and how to use it, but often our presence of power is enough. Once whole, we can more easily see the truth before us. As we continue on this path and heal our wounds, the clearer and more peaceful our lives and the lives of those around us become. We will not only be whole, we will be complete. Aware we need nothing outside of ourselves. Love is in fact, all we need.  

You see, I now understand the wisdom of the mirror. It is the tool to help us find our wholeness, which was available to us all along.  

Renowned Psychotherapist, Carl Jung says, “Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.”

Everyone in your life is there for a reason, holding the mirror up so you will see. When you feel the discomfort of irritation, when you are bothered by others or experiencing what you will now recognize as misalignment, pain, or lack of peace, ask yourself what you are not willing to embrace or accept about yourself. Do not be afraid to look directly in the mirror. Without looking in the mirror, you cannot look into your own eyes and see the whole of your existence. Always keep your eyes on the mirror. Peace and happiness come only from within.

I am hoping this message will be forever a part of you. A part that can simplify what seems like our complex world, all we need to do is look within. We need to no longer judge, but instead observe, and acknowledge our oneness.


*Sword-figurative for the power within us to use boundaries and take proper action to protect ourselves and others.


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