Our self-sacrificing behaviors are driven by unconscious voices in our head, voices which we often misperceive as our own, that are indeed formulated more by the voice of our childhood authorities—most consequentially, our parents.
It is not simply the words that were spoken to us. It is not simply the behaviors that we observed. It’s a combination of all the aspects of the movie we were cast into—our childhood.
In our early existence as we viewed and encountered the scenes in our movie unfolding before us, we made decisions about life that have become the drivers of our actions, inactions, and associated outcomes ever since. Good, bad, or indifferent, these decisions became ingrained as beliefs which are the foundation upholding the patterns of our life.
A foundation molded together with delusions of truth. To break free, the delusions must be shattered.
Our expectations of ourselves, our reactions to others, the way that we believe the world sees us, are a byproduct of these obscure beliefs creating our one foundation. All this, is nothing more than a composition of wounds, that are running our lives. Each one representing moments in time when we left pieces of ourselves behind, in exchange for who we felt we had to be—to be safe, to be loved, to be accepted.
Changing our life’s foundation can be rapid and permanent. The first thing to do is we must unearth what those decisions are that you made about life. From there we can quickly eradicate their power, and have you freely stand on a new foundation. One you created.
We are not children anymore. We have to release that single foundational thorn that we’ve stood on for too long.
Wake Up to how you’re operating from past hurts, Stand Up for your non-negotiable qualities and Live Free into your next reality.
Life is not meant to be a struggle, and healing from harsh forces is a beautiful, gentle awakening to the one limiting core belief—the red thorn—that can be gently released (not extracted).
Cut Your Root of Captivity.
diana iannarone 
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